Someone just did something for me that I consider one of the most important things about friendship - quietly and gently took me aside and pointed out that I had done something that I must surely think I shouldn't and suggested how I could fix it. And when I realised and agreed and thanked this person, the reply was: I thought that was the case.
And the lesson in this for me, in light of recent dramah, is - people see you for who you are and one action is just one action, it doesn't define your whole. And ... I need to work on the subtle, quietly and gently thing.
Thank you. You know who you are.