It was only after we were back at the workshop that I mentioned on the way to picking up the car, we had driven past the ex. They muttered a few things that were ... nice in my direction :-) But the funny thing was ... we were at a stop sign and the ex was at the opposite one and it took me most of that time we were stopped to figure out who it was - the face registered as "familiar" only and I was racking my brain to think who it was. And then at the moment just after I realised, I saw that he had twigged it was me and I looked away. I didn't need to acknowledge and I didn't need for him to acknowledge me. I realised that I don't to be friends with him. I don't like him and I don't like *who he is* as a person. I don't allow people like that to bring down the high standard that is my group of friends. And I just don't care. It is totally over for me and I felt absolutely nothing. And it felt GREAT. Downside is that there was someone else in the car but I spent the whole time trying to figure out who he is (I should say he got a new car after he broke up with me so it doesn't trigger for me) and so, if it was the new "Lady" I didn't check her out. Nothing to report about that.
So that's that. :-)